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Bachelorette Party Ideas: Dos, Dont’s, & Destinations


As wedding traditions continue to evolve in the 21st century (think ditching rice throwing, opting for first looks, and saying ‘I do’ anywhere but a church), it’s no surprise that bachelorette party customs are also undergoing a major transformation. Today, it’s all about tailoring the celebration to fit the bride-to-be’s vibe and vision.

Bachelorette Party Dos and Don’ts:

DON’T: Black Dresses

The LBD is never going out of style, but the trend of having all your bridesmaids wear black for your bachelorette party has gone stale. Mix things up a bit! Instead of blending into the crowd, why not stand out with vibrant colors, bold patterns, or even themed attire that reflects the bride-to-be’s personality? Whether it’s channeling retro vibes with neon hues or going full glitter and glam, it’s fun to expand the weekend theme into the wardrobe.

DO: Organized Attire

Give the bridesmaids a direction in their attire, possibly choose her favorite color, maxi dresses, or any color other than black or white. OR it would be cute to have the attendees all in white, while the bride-to-be is in a color that she loves. Whichever direction you choose, help point the gals on the right path with example outfit photos.


DON’T: Sell Suckers

It’s time to say goodbye to the Suck-for-a-Buck sucker bouquet. Bar-goers are seeing right through this tacky tradition of convincing others to buy a sucker from the bride’s “sucker bouquet” for $1. It’s time to try something new or just stop begging others for money.

DO: Split the cost of the Bride-to-Be’s Drinks

Give every Bachelorette Party attendee a ribbon for tying in a bow on their wrist. When the bride wants a drink, she pulls the ribbon off each of her girlfriends (or boyfriends) wrists! This activity is much classier than begging others for money or leaving the maid-of-honor with the bar tab.


DON’T: Plan A Generic Evening

Just getting dressed up and going out can definitely be a blast, maybe with a few bonus surprises for the bride along the way! But before planning three hotel room games, a night out at a crowded dance club, or building that sucker bouquet, it doesn’t hurt to consult the bride-to-be first. Plan a unique evening with a bit of the bride’s consideration.

DO: Plan a Bride-Approved Evening

Think outside of the bachelorette party box. Find activities the bride-to-be loves that she doesn’t typically get to partake in with her besties! Going to a sporting event, hiking and glamping, or a creative activity that could be decor at the wedding are just the start of possibilities! Or how can you help create the perfect night out that is an elevated version of every other Saturday night? We DO challenge you to make this an unforgettable experience for the bride filled with things she actually wants to do.


Bachelorette Party Destinations

Las Vegas

Vegas is the best spot for outstanding music at both the day pool parties and nightclubs! There are plenty of hotels to stay at with amazing pools and clubs onsite like the Flamingo (the pink decor is perfect for a bachelorette), MGM, Cosmopolitan (classy as ever), or Encore who all bring in world-class DJs.


Many have now dubbed Nashville has a “mini Vegas”, and this city is built for a great time with your besties! There are even places to stay designed especially for bachelorette parties like this bachelorette house on Airbnb that sleeps up to 12. Broadway, an entertainment district filled with live music and honky-tonks, is a must-stop destination for party-goers in downtown Nashville.


If your bride-to-be needs the beach and superior seafood, a party in Charleston, South Carolina might be perfect! After a day catching rays at Folly beach or a boat cruise in the harbor, the adventures are endless on King Street, Charleston’s old-world downtown destination. Let’s get Nauti!


Pink Perfection: The Trendy Hue Taking Over Bachelorette Parties and Weddings

Now trending are warm hues of reds and pinks for bachelorette events. Thinking pink for the bachelorette and the big day? See weddings with pink color palettes here!

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