Guide to Loving Your Engagement & Wedding Photos

Guide to Loving Your Engagement & Wedding Photos


“You can look at a picture for a week and never think of it again,” observes Trevor Wiltgen, Photographer & Lead Photo Editor, Complete Weddings + Events. “You can also look at a picture for a second and think of it for the rest of your life.”

If you’re dreaming about creating truly memorable images, there are a number of things to keep in mind. Below are some expert tips on how to select the right photographer and plan the essential photoshoot details to give you the results you’re looking for  – beautiful images that you will love for a lifetime. Let’s get started!

Guide to Engagement and Wedding Photos

You may be surprised to learn that engagement photos can serve multiple purposes. Not only will these images convey the love, romance, and intimacy of your early days together, you can also use the session as a trial run to experiment with different beauty looks and photo styles for the big day itself. Engagement photos also make great backdrops for save-the-date cards. Most importantly, an engagement photo session will help you determine whether your chosen photographer is the best fit to commemorate the upcoming, magical moments of your wedding day.

Choosing Your Professional Photographer

Feeling a little overwhelmed? It’s no wonder. There are already so many things to think about when planning a wedding and – let’s face it – the Kansas market is saturated with potential engagement and wedding photographers. So, how do you go about picking the right one? As you begin to explore your options, there are several important elements to consider.


To begin, take a look at the potential photographer’s wedding portfolio, website, and all social media outlets. “It amazes me how many people inquire about the packages before they even looked over the galleries or blogs of weddings,” says Cassie Boyce, Photographer & Media Manager, Complete Weddings + Events Springfield, MO. “If you are not a fan of the style or gallery of work, it is a waste of your time to get pricing from that photographer.”

A wedding portfolio and/or online gallery should give you a good sense of the photographer’s experience and preferred photography style(s). Explore whether they tend more towards artsy candids, traditional posed studio shots, a photo-journalistic approach, or a range of other stylistic possibilities. You can also see whether they’ve photographed past weddings at your specific venue, or at similar venues to yours. On-location experience can be helpful, though is by no means essential.

Because a portfolio consists of a photographer’s best images from a number of different events, Boyce also recommends asking to see a full album from a single wedding. This will give you a more realistic impression of image quality from start to finish.


Once you’ve found several photographers whose images you like, it’s time to ask about availability and pricing. First, see if they are free on your preferred date(s). Next, while exploring cost, be sure you are comparing apples to apples. In other words, do the wedding photographers under consideration include exactly the same things in their wedding photography packages?


Engagement Photo Outfit Ideas and Tips

When selecting your two ensembles, you may wish to pair a casual outfit with more formal attire – or choose one outfit appropriate for indoors, then one for outside. When deciding on your attire, consider the practicality of photo location, season, and weather. After all, you probably won’t want to be posing outside for two hours in the middle of winter wearing a strapless dress! Instead, coordinate clothing choices with your surroundings. For example, how about trying earth-toned sweaters and scarves with jeans and cozy boots against a background of fall foliage? Or, what about wearing shades of blue and white against a beach, lake, or other water-themed backdrop during summertime?

“When it comes to picking out outfits for engagement photos, you should pick something that makes you feel confident, beautiful and that fits your body type,” suggests Cassie Boyce. “One thing I love about clothes is that you can highlight as well as hide any part of your body that you choose!” She also recommends selecting colors that coordinate with your home decor, so that you can blow up your favorite images and artistically hang them on your walls.

Again, consider asking friends, family members, and even your photographer for personalized advice on what to wear. You can even ask someone to take several informal smartphone photos of you in the potential outfits for an impartial preview, then decide which ones work best. But, in the end – as with hair and makeup – make sure you ultimately choose the outfits that make you feel your best.


Engagement Photo Location and Tips

When it comes to finding the perfect spot for engagement photos, consider places that are meaningful to you as a couple and/or reflect your combined interests and personalities.

Ask yourselves:

  • Where did we first meet?
  • Where did we get engaged?
  • Where do we hang out as a couple?
  • What activities do we enjoy doing together?

Whether it’s hiking outdoors in the fresh air, cooking gourmet meals at home in your pajamas, dressing up and going to the theater, or snuggling in front of a fire underneath fleece blankets – the more meaningful the location, the more comfortable and natural you will feel during your photoshoot. As a result, the image quality will reflect this.


Of course, you can also explore specific local venues such as parks, gardens, waterfront areas, or historic buildings to find a beautiful engagement photo location. Be sure to work out the exact spots in advance of your shoot if it’s an area you’re not super familiar with. Or, if you’re still really not sure where to take your photos, ask your photographer for recommendations. They will already be familiar with some great places for romantic photos – and, of course, there’s always the option to do a simple studio session.


Once you’ve selected a location, ask your photographer when the lighting will be most optimal and schedule accordingly. If outdoors in the vast Kansas landscape, photographers generally prefer times closer to sunrise or sunset to avoid harsh sunlight and shadows.

If you’ve chosen a public space, you’ll want to confirm that there won’t be any major events impacting your photo session – unless it’s an event that’s meaningful to you! But in most cases, couples don’t envision crowds in the background of their engagement photos. Also, to be on the safe side, look into whether you need a permit to take photos at your chosen site.

No matter where you ultimately book your session, remember that the most important feature is capturing the love and intimacy between the two of you. Attractive surroundings are simply an added bonus!

“The best photography starts with great communication beforehand. Communicate and share your pinterest boards, how you want to look and feel on your wedding day and most importantly what you’d love to show off after your wedding!” – Ryan Dubree, Owner, Complete Weddings + Events Tulsa

Choosing Your Photography Style

Photography styles are wide-ranging and include traditional, artistic, documentary, candid, dramatic, black and white, portrait, natural, romantic, vintage, and more. While some photographers tend primarily towards a particular style, other wedding photographers are less specialized and successfully dabble in multiple styles.

The best way to ensure you receive the stylized shots you desire is to share sample photos with your photographer. But always keep an open mind – if your theoretical preference is for outdoor candids, you might be pleasantly surprised to discover that indoor studio shots end up being your favorite images! Again, communication is key.

Remember that your engagement photo session is the perfect time to experiment with different photo styles. “Take the time to look back at your engagement photos and share with your photographer the photos you loved so you can recreate them on your wedding day,” encourages Ari Reynolds.

With a little advance planning and a lot of open communication, the images you are now envisioning are sure to become reality. Simply follow our expert photography tips to create an array of memorable engagement and wedding photos that you will treasure for the rest of your lives together.

Outfit Advice

“When it comes to picking out outfits for engagement photos you should pick something that makes you feel confident, beautiful, and that fits your body type. If a client comes to me asking what they should wear, first I am going to address what they love about their body as well as what they are self-conscious about. One thing I love about clothes is that you can highlight as well hide any part of your body that you choose! Another tip I like to give is think about how the colors you are picking will look hung up on your wall. My house is full of greys and blues so I personally like to choose color schemes that will compliment them, because I know I will be blowing up some of these images big to hang on my wall.” -Cassie Boyce, Photographer, Complete Weddings + Events


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