R and B Garter Toss Songs

Choosing the Perfect Garter Toss Songs

When considering garter toss songs, you may want to skip tunes with a ton of expletives, but you should go with something that has a little more heat than, say, a PG song.  Yes, it’s likely that your grandparents may give you a few disapproving glances, but it’s your party and you can do what you want to.

Your wedding DJ can help mix together timeless hits and fresh favorites to fit your crowd and personality. After all, it’s your party, your music should reflect your love story and the unique energy of your celebration.

The Removal

Since you need to remove the garter before it can be thrown, let’s discuss your song choices.  For the introverts of the world, this activity is pure terror, but we’ll get through it.  Pick an upbeat song like the ones from my Spotify List of PG garter removal songs below, and only do what you’re comfortable with.

For the Showmen: Turn Up the Heat with Sexy Garter Removal Songs

Now, for my showmen out there, let’s take it to the next level.  Pick some songs with serious heat. There are classics like “Let’s Get it On” by Marvin Gaye that did not make my list because they’re used at every wedding reception. You don’t want to be like everybody else. You want to show your unique sex appeal. Take a look at my list of sexy garter removal songs below

Garter Toss Songs to Get the Crowd Hyped

After the garter removal is all said and done, it’s time to switch up the music and toss it into a crowd of pumped-up eligible bachelors! As this old tradition goes, whichever person in the crowd catches the treasured garter will have good luck and be the next to marry. Some also say that by throwing the wedding garter, the groom is tossing away his single life to his unmarried friends. Whichever it is, one thing we can all agree on is that it’s an excellent way to get the single men on the dance floor. Here are some garter toss songs that will help

Romantic and Playful Garter Placement Songs

Next comes the garter placement, often one of the funniest and most unpredictable parts of the night. Some couples let fate decide who catches the bouquet and garter, while others plan it in advance to make sure it’s memorable for all the right reasons.

No matter the route you choose, this Spotify list of songs is for you. Your Fort Lauderdale DJ can cue up songs that fit the moment, from sultry slow jams to cheeky pop hits.

Even as the garter toss tradition becomes optional, couples throughout South Florida still keep it alive because it brings laughter, connection, and great photo opportunities. And that’s what your wedding night is all about.

Updated for 2025: R&B Garter Toss Song Ideas

Over all these years, there have been numerous songs that have become associated with the garter toss. There are thousands of tracks to choose from, but some songs just feel made for this moment. In 2026, couples are mixing nostalgic 2000s bangers with smooth, modern R&B so the tradition feels fun and current.

Below are some 2026‑ready ideas to spark your playlist. Use them as a starting point and customize with your DJ.

Flirty & Sexy Garter Removal Songs (R&B Focus)

These work best while the groom is removing the garter and you want a little heat and a lot of reactions.

• “In Those Jeans” – Ginuwine
  Slow, sultry, and iconic—still one of the most requested “sexy” R&B tracks for this moment.
• “Body Party” – Ciara
  Smooth R&B groove with confident, sensual lyrics that fit the vibe without feeling dated.
• “Pony” – Ginuwine
  A bold choice that’s become a meme in the best way—great for showmen grooms and fun crowds.
• “Leave The Door Open” – Silk Sonic (Bruno Mars, Anderson .Paak)
  Retro‑inspired R&B that feels classy, romantic, and flirty all at once.
• “Best Part” – Daniel Caesar ft. H.E.R.
  Intimate, romantic R&B slow jam—perfect if you want the removal to feel more sweet than wild.
• “How We Roll” – Ciara ft. Chris Brown
  Modern, confident R&B with a fun, sexy energy that fits a more playful, showy removal.
• “Versace on the Floor” – Bruno Mars
  Dramatic, slow, and sensual—great for couples who want a more cinematic, R&B‑inspired moment.
• “Earned It” – The Weeknd
  Moody and undeniably sultry—best for night‑time receptions and confident couples.

Hype Songs for the Actual Garter Toss

These work best for the moment the garter actually flies and you’re trying to get all the single guys to jump for it.

• “Hot in Herre” – Nelly
  Nostalgic 2000s classic that still makes people laugh, sing, and get a little wild.
• “Animals” – Maroon 5
  High energy and a little unhinged in the best way—great for crowds that love pop‑rock party tracks.
• “Levitating” – Dua Lipa ft. DaBaby
  Modern dance‑floor staple with a big, feel‑good groove that works perfectly for short, hype cues.
• “Blinding Lights” – The Weeknd
  Massive, high‑energy track that every age group recognizes by the first few seconds.
• “Savage Love” – Jawsh 685, Jason Derulo
  TikTok‑era pop with a playful vibe—best for younger, high‑energy groups.
• “How We Roll” – Ciara ft. Chris Brown
  Can double as either a flirty removal track or a toss‑hype song, depending on which part your DJ drops.

Updated on June 17, 2026

Modern R&B Garter Toss Songs for 2026

While classics like Ginuwine and Barry White still dominate wedding playlists, many couples are mixing in newer hits and early-2000s throwbacks. Wedding DJs are seeing a continued resurgence of nostalgic music that appeals to Millennials and Gen Z couples alike.

Some modern favorites include:

• Ridin’ Solo – Jason Derulo
• Blinding Lights – The Weeknd
• Perm – Bruno Mars
• Say So – Doja Cat
• Good as Hell – Lizzo
• Started From the Bottom – Drake
• Big Pimpin – Jay-Z
• Player’s Ball – Outkast
• I – Kendrick Lamar

Is the Garter Toss Still Popular?

Wedding traditions continue to evolve, and many couples are choosing to personalize every aspect of their reception. While the garter toss remains a fun and popular tradition for some, others are opting to modify it or replace it with activities that better reflect their personalities and the experience they want to create for their guests.

Today’s couples are focusing less on following tradition for tradition’s sake and more on creating meaningful moments that feel authentic to them. Because of this, wedding receptions have become more flexible and customized than ever before.

Many couples still enjoy the excitement and humor of a traditional garter toss, especially when paired with great music and an enthusiastic crowd. Others prefer to keep the moment private or replace it with an activity that involves more guests and creates memories everyone can share.

Popular alternatives to the traditional garter toss include:

Anniversary Dance

Invite all married couples onto the dance floor and gradually dismiss couples based on the number of years they’ve been married. The last couple remaining is honored with a special dance and often shares marriage advice with the newlyweds.

Shoe Game

The bride and groom sit back-to-back holding one of each other’s shoes while answering fun questions about their relationship. Guests love the laughter and personality this interactive game brings to the reception.

Private Garter Exchange

Some couples appreciate the symbolism of the tradition but prefer to share the moment privately before the reception. This approach keeps the exchange intimate while preserving its sentimental meaning.

Crowd Interaction Games

Wedding trivia, table competitions, dance-offs, and other interactive games have become increasingly popular because they engage guests of all ages and add energy to the celebration.

Gender-Neutral Bouquet or Prize Toss

Rather than limiting participation to single guests, many couples invite everyone to join in. Some even toss a special prize, such as a date-night basket, gift card, or other fun keepsake.

At COMPLETE Weddings + Events, we’ve seen every approach work beautifully. Some couples embrace the classic garter toss, while others create entirely new traditions that are uniquely their own. There is no right or wrong choice. The best wedding traditions are the ones that feel natural to you and help create the atmosphere you want your guests to remember.

Whether you choose a traditional garter toss or an alternative celebration, your wedding reception should reflect your personalities and tell your story. After all, the most memorable weddings are the ones that feel genuinely and unmistakably yours.

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