A Groom’s Guide to Wedding Planning

Talk First, Plan Later

Before you start choosing tie colors or signature drinks, sit down with your partner and get the vibes right. Are we doing fairytale romance or chill backyard party with tacos? Do we want to splurge on a dance party with a professional DJ or go full DIY?

Once you’re both vibing with the same vision, the rest starts falling into place. Teamwork? Yeah, that’s it.

Lock in the Big Three

Once the vibe is locked, it’s time to book the venue, secure the vendors (photographer, DJ, food, etc.), and lock the date. This stuff gets booked fast, like sneaker drop fast — so don’t sleep on it.

Also, pick your groomsmen early. Choose people who won’t ghost you on group chats and know how to give a solid toast without trauma dumping.

Suit Up (But Make It You)

You don’t have to wear a basic black tux if that’s not your thing. Love bold colors? Rock ‘em. Into sneakers instead of dress shoes? Go for it (just don’t tell your grandma). The goal: feel confident and comfortable, because you’ll be wearing it all day.

And make sure your guys aren’t out here guessing. Share inspo, set a group chat, and help them look good too. Group photos are forever.

Actually Be Involved

Listen. No one’s asking you to obsess over centerpieces. But pick your battles. Music playlist? Food? Cake tasting? Those are groom-core responsibilities. Jump in where it makes sense and show your partner you’re in this with them.

Wedding planning isn’t a solo act. It’s a co-op game. Play your part.

Be the Group Chat Captain

Your groomsmen need a leader, and guess what? It’s you. Send the details. Confirm the fits. Remind them what time to show up. If your guys are chill but also clueless, this part will save your wedding day.

And yes, a little thank-you gift goes a long way. Flasks, socks, or something that says “thanks for showing up and not messing this up.”

Day-Of: Just Enjoy It

You made it. Don’t stress about timelines or weather or who brought their ex as a plus one. You did the work — now soak it up. Laugh, dance, eat something, and kiss your partner like no one’s watching (but also they totally are).

The Groom’s Guide to Wedding Planning isn’t about being perfect — it’s about being present, helpful, and hyped to start this new chapter. You’re not just the groom — you’re the guy who showed up and made it unforgettable.

Ready to Be That Groom Who Shows Up and Shines?

At Complete Weddings + Events Colorado Springs, we get it — you want your wedding to feel like you. Our team captures every laugh, happy tear, and epic dance move with videography that tells your story, your way.

Need more inspo? Check out our blog for groom-friendly wedding tips.

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