How to Include Kids in Your Wedding Party: Austin-Style Fun for the Littles

Why Include Kids? Because They’re the Ultimate Party Starters

Kids bring a special kind of magic to weddings—spontaneous giggles, unexpected dance moves, and pure, unfiltered joy. In Austin, where we’re all about keeping it weird and wonderful, involving kids in your wedding party adds that extra sprinkle of personality. Plus, it’s a sweet way to honor the little ones in your life and make them feel like they’re part of the love story. Whether you’re tying the knot at a Hill Country vineyard or a trendy downtown loft, here’s how to make the kids shine.

Age-Appropriate Roles for Tiny Texans

Not every kiddo is ready to walk down the aisle with a pillow of rings, but there’s a role for every age and personality. Here are some ideas to get those little boots scootin’:

• Flower Kiddos (Ages 2–6): Swap the classic flower girl title for something more Austin, like “Petal Wrangler.” Have them toss wildflower petals (bonus points for Texas bluebonnets!) as they strut down the aisle. Pro tip: Book a venue like Lady Bird Johnson Wildflower Center for that lush garden vibe perfect for petal-tossing tots.
• Ring Bearers (Ages 4–8): These mini-cowboys can carry your rings on a custom pillow or in a cool keepsake box. For an Austin twist, consider a tiny cowboy hat from Allens Boots to complete the look.
• Junior Bridesmaids/Groomsmen (Ages 8–12): Older kids can rock a scaled-down version of your bridal party’s attire. Check out Blush Bridal Lounge for chic, kid-friendly outfits that match your crew’s vibe.
• Sign Bearers (Ages 3–7): Have kids carry a sign saying “Here Comes the Bride” or “Yeehaw, They’re Hitched!” for that Austin charm. Local vendor The Menagerie can craft custom signs with a rustic or modern twist.

Pro Tip: Chat with our Complete Weddings + Events Austin planners to coordinate kid-friendly roles that fit your vision and keep the little ones happy.

Dress ‘Em Up, Austin Style

Nothing says “adorable” like kids decked out in wedding gear with a local twist. For girls, think flowy dresses with a touch of boho chic—perfect for an outdoor ceremony at Ranch Austin. Boys can sport suspenders, bow ties, or even mini cowboy boots for that Hill Country flair. Work with Austin’s Loot Vintage Rentals to source cute accessories or props for the kids’ outfits. And don’t forget to match their look to your color palette—maybe some burnt orange for you Longhorn fans or dusty blue for a Hill Country sunset vibe.

Keep ‘Em Busy with Austin-Inspired Activities

Kids at weddings can be a blast, but they’ve got the attention span of a caffeinated armadillo. Keep them entertained with activities that scream Austin:

• Craft Corner: Create a “Keep Austin Crafty” table with coloring books featuring Texas themes (think armadillos and cacti) or DIY wildflower crowns. Source supplies from local fave Paper + Craft Pantry.
• Photo Booth Fun: Our Complete Weddings + Events photo booth is a hit with kids. Add props like mini cowboy hats or oversized sunglasses for that ATX quirk. Bonus: The pics will be pure gold for your wedding album.
• Kiddo Dance Party: Hire a DJ from Complete Weddings + Events Austin to spin a kid-friendly playlist—think “Baby Shark” meets “Sweet Caroline.” 

Sweet Gestures to Make Kids Feel Special

Make the little ones feel like MVPs with heartfelt touches:

• Vows to the Kids: If you’re blending families, consider including a promise to your stepchildren during the ceremony. It’s a tear-jerker moment that shows you’re all in as a fam. Our Complete Weddings + Events videographers can capture every sniffle.
• Special Gifts: Gift the kids a keepsake like a charm bracelet or engraved locket from Kendra Scott, a local Austin gem (pun intended). It’s a sweet way to say, “You’re part of this love story.”
• Kiddo Toast: Swap the champagne for sparkling cider and let the kids join the toast with their own fancy glasses. 

Plan for Kiddo Comfort with Austin Flair

Weddings can be a long day for little ones, so plan ahead to keep them happy:

• Hire a Wedding Nanny: Many companies offer on-site childcare, so parents can relax while kids play in a supervised area. Perfect for a long night at The Videre Estate.
• Kid-Friendly Menu: Work with Complete Weddings + Events catering partners to create a menu with crowd-pleasers like mini sliders or mac ‘n’ cheese bites. Add a local twist with BBQ from Terry Black’s Barbecue.
• Comfy Seating: Set up a cozy kids’ table with games or coloring books. Monarch Events can style a table that’s both cute and functional.

Capture the Cuteness with Complete’s Photography

Kids make for some of the best wedding photos—those candid moments of them twirling in dresses or sneaking extra cake are pure magic. Our Complete Weddings + Events photographers know how to capture every giggle and grin. Pair them with a venue like Hummingbird House for whimsical, storybook-worthy shots that’ll make your heart melt.

Let’s Make Your Austin Wedding a Family Affair

Including kids in your wedding party isn’t just about keeping them busy, it’s about creating memories that’ll last a lifetime. With Austin’s vibrant venues, creative vendors, and our Complete Weddings + Events Austin team by your side, you can craft a day that’s as fun for the kiddos as it is for the grown-ups. Ready to plan a wedding that’s equal parts love, laughter, and Lone Star charm? Contact us to start building your dream day, complete with tiny cowboys and petal-wranglin’ pros.