Wedding Dress Codes Explained: What Your Guests Need to Know

Black-Tie Attire

Think timeless elegance! Black-tie weddings are the most formal, usually held in grand venues. Men should wear a tuxedo with a bow tie, while women should opt for a floor-length gown. If you love the idea of a glam, red-carpet vibe, black-tie is the way to go!

Formal Attire

Formal, or “black-tie optional,” is a step down from black-tie but still fancy. Men can wear a dark suit with a tie instead of a tuxedo. Women should choose a long gown or a chic midi dress. This dress code is perfect if you want a sophisticated wedding without requiring tuxedos.

Cocktail Attire

Cocktail attire is stylish but less formal. Men should wear a suit, but ties are optional. Women can choose knee-length dresses, chic midi dresses, or even dressy jumpsuits. If you want a classy but fun atmosphere, cocktail attire is a great choice!

Semi-Formal Attire

Semi-formal is relaxed but polished. Men can wear dress pants with a button-down shirt and a blazer, but a full suit isn’t required. Women can wear a short dress, midi dress, or a dressy skirt and top. This dress code works well for outdoor weddings or afternoon celebrations.

Casual Attire

Casual doesn’t mean jeans and a T-shirt! Men should wear nice pants with a button-down or polo. Women can opt for a sundress, maxi dress, or stylish jumpsuit. Perfect for beach or backyard weddings, casual attire keeps things comfortable yet put-together.

Country Western Attire

Boots encouraged! A country western dress code lets guests embrace their inner cowboy or cowgirl. Men can wear dark jeans or khakis with a button-down and cowboy boots. Women can wear a flowy dress with boots or a Western-style skirt and top. If you’re having a rustic barn wedding, this dress code sets the perfect tone!

Tips for Choosing the Right Dress Code

When deciding wedding dress codes, consider your venue, season, and how much guidance your guests may need. A ballroom or upscale hotel pairs well with black-tie or formal attire, while a barn or beach wedding feels more natural with semi-formal or casual dress. Weather is also important—lighter fabrics work for summer, while winter weddings may require layers or coats. To make it easier for guests, create a Pinterest board with outfit inspiration that matches your vision. Providing clear expectations ensures everyone feels comfortable, confident, and appropriately dressed for your big day.

Where to Shop for the Perfect Outfit

Not sure where to find the right look? Check out these local boutiques and tuxedo stores for stylish wedding attire.

For Bridal & Formalwear:

LUV Bridal – The Luv Bridal experience is a personalized and passionate journey, offering one-on-one styling, inclusive sample options, and a luxury showroom designed to make every bride feel at home.

The White Flower – Since 2009, The White Flower Bridal Boutique has offered an exclusive and intimate experience, combining expert stylists, bespoke gowns, and masterful in-house alterations to help every bride bring her dream dress to life.

For Suits & Tuxedos:

Robert’s Men Suits – Robert’s Men Suits blends tradition with modern style to deliver exceptional, sustainable menswear while empowering clients through education, confidence, and timeless fashion.

Ron Stuart Clothing – With over 40 years of experience, this trusted haberdasher has styled professionals, city officials, and celebrities alike, offering quality menswear that balances timeless style with modern trends.

Complete Weddings + Events – San Diego

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