Always keep in mind you’re getting married and starting a life together. Be good to each other (and those helping you plan the celebration). Some tension, whether it’s between you as a couple or with loved ones, is inevitable due to the heavy decisions that accompany weddings. Remember why you decided to take this leap in the first place. While your wedding day is a huge milestone in your lives … it’s the very first day of your marriage. Here are a few tips on avoiding wedding planning mistakes in San Antonio, Texas.
Don’t Make These Wedding Planning Mistakes in San Antonio
Blowing Off Your Wedding Budget
Most people don’t start off their wedding planning talking about money … but that doesn’t make it less important. Many times, excited engaged couples start booking vendors and making purchases without having or setting a budget and then are shocked to discover they’ve spent most of their money and don’t have all of the things or services they need.
Planning a wedding is serious business, so it’s important to make and set a budget and keep track of your expenditures and can actually relax on your wedding day. The cost of a wedding is definitely not the most fun topic to discuss in light of your engagement, but it’s extremely important.
Getting Attached to a Specific Flower Type
When booking your florist, a year before your wedding day, they estimate which blooms will be in your price range and available on your wedding day. So, if your heart is set on orchids, you could be disappointed the day of. To avoid this, choose backups and add them to your contract. Think in terms of colors and shapes instead of specific flowers. Finding the perfect florist for your big day can be a challenge.
The right florist will be able to guide you to the wedding flowers, bridal bouquets, and bridesmaids bouquets you have always dreamed of.
Letting Other People Pick Your Wedding Party Invite List
You will experience the tension at some point, that comes with family members requesting certain people are invited to your wedding. Remember … your wedding party is yours, which means you’re in charge of narrowing the guest list down to your closest friends and family members. Picking people to please family members can also result in tension. When it comes to wedding planning, it’s best to choose what feels right for you. After all, it’s your wedding day!
Sending Out Save-the-Dates Too Early
Engagement brings with it excitement! And it’s tempting to tell everyone about your wedding date when planning is in the beginning stages, but don’t send those save-the-date cards until you’ve finalized the guest list. Save-the-date magnets and cards are typically sent out eight to ten months before your wedding date, and only to guests you’re absolutely positive will be invited.
Plan on sending save-the-date cards for destination weddings a minimum of six months in advance, and up to eight months before the big day. This will give your guests plenty of time to compare flight options, make arrangements at work, and plan an extended trip before or after your wedding if they so desire.
Ordering Your Wedding Dress Too Late
Soon after your engagement, make sure you lock in your wedding dress. And if you’re purchasing a wedding dress that will require customization or needs to be ordered, do so by the six-month mark at the very latest. Since your bridal dress will be custom made (and potentially shipped from overseas), buffer in enough time to receive the piece and complete fittings. And most off-the-rack wedding dresses will require alterations, so allow enough time for that entire process. The same goes for the bridal party and bridesmaid dresses.
Skipping the Videographer
Don’t do it! We hear from couples after their wedding day often that the one regret that has is not making a wedding video a priority. Wedding photos are a must for most couples, but they will only take you so far. Cinematic videos let you hear your and your partner’s voice as you say your vows and watch your friends tear up the dance floor.
When hiring a professional videographer to document your wedding, you’ll relive those special moments you may have missed on the day, like interactions with grandparents, that you’ll definitely want to treasure for a lifetime. Although wedding photographers and wedding videographers can be expensive, you won’t regret having the story of your wedding captured on film.
Not Asking Enough Questions
While it’s important to be respectful and polite to your wedding vendors, it’s also important to make sure you get all the information you need. Don’t be afraid to ask specific questions so that you understand exactly what you’re signing up for.
Hiring a Friend Instead of a Professional
Your best friend from college may make amazing playlists, but that doesn’t mean he’ll make a great wedding DJ. The same goes for your friend who’s a social media expert, this doesn’t make her a photographer. Even on a tight budget, we recommend hiring professional wedding vendors with experience. Creating a list of wedding vendors and comparing them can help you find the best vendors for you based on budget, wants, and needs. It’s more fun for your friends when they can fully enjoy your wedding day with you.
Forgetting to Focus on What’s Important
Always keep in mind you’re getting married and starting a life together. Be good to each other (and those helping you plan the celebration). Some tension, whether it’s between you as a couple or with loved ones, is inevitable due to the heavy decisions that accompany weddings. Remember why you decided to take this leap in the first place. While your wedding day is a huge milestone in your lives … it’s the very first day of your marriage.
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