Wedding speeches are a tradition that may cause equal parts of excitement and anxiety for those involved. When done well, they can evoke tears, laughter, and all-around sentimental moments. However, when done poorly, they can have the opposite effect. If you are preparing to deliver a wedding speech, here are some of the do’s and don’ts of wedding speeches to keep in mind.
The Do’s:
1. Practice, Practice, Practice
This one is pretty straightforward. Your wedding speech should be well-prepared and well-rehearsed. Practice your speech multiple times before delivering it at the wedding. This will help you avoid the “ums”, “ahs”, and awkward pauses that can cause your audience to lose interest.
2. Keep It Positive
Weddings are joyous occasions, so make sure your speech is appropriately upbeat and positive. Avoid controversial topics like politics, religion, and anything else that may divide the audience or detract from the celebration.
3. Work On Visuals
Adding visuals to your speech can help further captivate your audience – a picture or slideshow can add an extra touching element to your words. However – be sure to check with the couple before showing pictures or including anything that could be considered embarrassing or inappropriate.
4. Remember Thank You’s And Gratitude
The speech should be focused on the couple, but don’t forget to thank all those involved in making the day special, such as the wedding planner, caterers, and all the family, friends, and vendors who helped make the day possible.
5. Keep It Short And Sweet
It’s important to keep in mind the attention span of your audience by keeping your speech to a manageable length (between 2 – 4 minutes). This will help keep your audience engaged and give you the chance to deliver a powerful message.
The Don’ts:
1. Overindulge In Alcohol Before The Speech
A couple of drinks to soothe the nerves are okay, but don’t go overboard. Avoid drinking too much before your speech as it can lead to slurring your speech, rambling, or making inappropriate remarks.
2. Mimic Anyone Else’s Speech
Your speech should be original and personalized to the couple. Having the same format, tone or keynotes from someone else’s speech can come off as uninspiring or dull. Plus, nobody likes a copycat.
3. Use Offensive Language Or Tell Inappropriate Stories
Weddings are a family affair, so it’s essential to keep the speech family-friendly. Avoid using off-color jokes, stories that are embarrassing, or anything that could be considered inappropriate, offensive, or insensitive.
4. Forget Timing
The Toastmaster or Master of Ceremonies may have strict timing rules, it is important not to outstay your welcome. Plan your speech timing accordingly and keep it within the given schedule.
5. Forget To Thank Anyone Important
It is important to thank the couple and everyone involved in making the day special but forgetting to thank key people within your speech can potentially offend them, or worse, create an uncomfortable situation.
The Key to a Perfect Wedding Speech
These are just a few of the do’s and don’ts of delivering a wedding speech. The key is to be prepared, original and focused on the couple’s special day. With some planning and practice, you can deliver a speech that they’ll remember forever.
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